The Reason Why Garth Brooks and Trisha Yearwood Can’t Be Apart

This article appeared in Pensandpatron and has been published here with permission.

Since the recent film A Star Is Born was released, the love story of Garth Brooks and Trisha Yearwood has sprung to mind. Before the pair made it big, it was Brooks who helped Yearwood made her way, promising she could open for his shows one day. The two were in relationships when they first met and they started as just friends. Yet, while recording together, it became nearly impossible for Brooks to take his eyes off Yearwood. The pair immediately hit it off but made sure to keep things platonic. Garth Brooks kept his promise and a little while later Trisha Yearwood was touring with the superstar.

Power Couple

Garth Brooks and Trisha Yearwood are arguably one of the best power couples in country music. Country music fans are certainly aware of this power couple who have been together for over a decade (an accomplishment for celebrities).

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But little is known about their difficult journey before tieing the knot. As Brooks revealed he can’t be away from his wife, we take a look at what got them to this point. From being just friends to an inseparable marriage, this is their journey.

Just Friends

Before either had a record label, the pair became friends! Brooks and Yearwood met in 1987 while recording a demo at songwriter Kent Blazy’s attic studio and immediately hit it off.

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Married at the time, Yearwood, said, “We hit it off, but I had no idea he’d turn out to be Garth Brooks!” While her unknowingly future partner later revealed, “It’s strange because I felt that feeling like when you just meet your wife, but I’d been married for 13 months.”

Keeping Things Platonic

After recording at Blazy’s studio, Yearwood was paid $10 for her work, while Brooks walked away without a dime, according to CMT. However, he did manage to gain a lot more than money from the recording; his first meeting with his future wife.

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Despite their instant connection, Brooks was married to his then-wife, college sweetheart Sandy Mahl, and Yearwood was married to her college beau, Chris Latham. Therefore, the singers had no choice but to maintain a professional relationship and keep things platonic.

Going On Tour

Brooks even promised to Yearwood that when he got his record deal and made it big, she could open shows for him. Brooks stuck to his word and two years later, following the release of his first album, the two friends went on tour together.

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They also collaborated on duets such as “Like We Never Had a Broken Heart,” from Trisha’s debut album, and “In Another’s Eyes,” which appeared on her 1997 record, “A Collection of Hits.” Despite his initial feelings, the two remained faithful to their partners.

Brooks’ Journey

For the next few years while performing together, the friends got on with their lives. Brooks and his wife, Mahl, had three daughters: Taylor Mayne Pearl (1992), August Anna (1994), and Allie Colleen Brooks (1996).

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Despite being the best-selling solo albums artist in the US and the only artist in history to have released 7 albums achieving diamond status, Brooks decided to take a break from his career in 2000 in order to spend more time with his daughters. A year later, he and Sandy filed for divorce.

Meanwhile…

While Brooks was becoming a huge success, Trisha was making a name for herself and released her debut album in 1991, which contained the number 1 single “She’s in Love with the Boy.”

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She recorded some duets with Garth, including “In Another’s Eyes,” which became a huge success and won them a Grammy Award. Unfortunately, her romance was less successful. She divorced her first husband Chris Latham in 1991 and married Robert “Bobby” Reynolds, bass player for the country music group The Mavericks, in 1994. The couple divorced in 1999.

Free To Blossom

Finally, the two friends were single and dynamics began to change. Away from the public eye, romance began to blossom. In 2002, they were spotted holding hands at a memorial service for Nashville songwriter Harlan Howard.

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This was their first public appearance as a couple. After that, they made appearances in public including at events and restaurants. Brooks revealed to Ellen DeGeneres, “You keep hacking [at marriage], you work and you work and then comes that time where you’re looking at the rest of your life going, how do you want to live it?”

The Surprise

Brooks continued to say “[Trisha] is somebody who I always enjoyed being around, and we had a lot more in common than I ever dreamed we did and we started seeing each other after the divorce after we came off tour.”

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Three years later the couple was at star Buck Owen’s Crystal Palace. They were at the unveiling for the bronze statues of Garth and other music legends. When Garth’s statue was revealed, it had a wedding band on its left hand. Quite the giveaway, Trisha said, “You’re not going [to do this] in front of these people?”

The Proposal

But Brooks did not listen to her and, on stage, in front of a crowd of 7,000 people, he got down on one knee, removed his hat, and asked Trisha, “Will you marry me?” Despite living together for a few years, Yearwood was stunned, “Her knees were like Jell-O,” talent coordinator Jerry Hufford told People.

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While crying tears of joy, she accepted the proposal. A year later, they tied the knot at their home in Oklahoma in front of only four family members.

A Family Affair

The happy couple had an extremely intimate Christmas-style wedding, marrying in mid-December 2005. “It’s the perfect Christmas gift to each other. We could not be happier.” Brooks and Yearwood make it a point to make their anniversary a family affair.

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“When we got married … we married the girls,” Yearwood says, referring to Brooks’ three daughters, Taylor, August, and Allie. “So the five of us always celebrate together.” Up to this point, life seemed pretty perfect. But what are the strange facts about their marriage that we do not know about?

Can’t Stand To Be Apart

Garth Brooks has admitted that he cannot spend a day apart from his beloved wife. While it is acceptable for couples to spend time apart, Brooks wants to be right by Yearwood’s side day in and day out.

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In a 2014 interview with People, Brooks told reporters they were “looking at the luckiest, most blessed guy on the planet.” He reportedly began to tear up when he said, “I’m madly in love with her and I can’t stand to spend a day without her.”

Public Displays Of Affection

As you may already be able to tell, Brooks is not shy about PDA. On their 12th anniversary, he spoke openly on iHeartRadio, “It’s just twelve. It could be a hundred and twelve and it would still feel the same.

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Every day is like the first day for me. Everything from the way she smells to the way she talks. Just things that never get old.” That year Garth and Trisha celebrated their anniversary on stage at Nashville’s Bridgestone Arena during the final shows of their world tour.

The Love Of My Life

Ready for more cringe? While visiting The View, Brooks continued to share his devoted love for his spouse. He joked with the talk show hosts that he introduces his wife as “the love of his life” everywhere they go.

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Meanwhile, Yearwood jokingly refers to him as “her current husband.” During that same interview, Yearwood called Brooks her “biggest cheerleader” off and on the stage and said even when they’re not all “lovey-dovey and passionate,” they’re still the best of friends.

From Country To Pop

They may be the King and Queen of country music and have dominated the country music charts, but when it comes to their own personal downtime preferences, the pair claim to be fans of pop music.

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Brooks surprised Yearwood for her 53rd birthday with an impromptu trip to Louisville, KY to see Bruno Mars perform live. In a Facebook post, Yearwood said she wasn’t sure “who had more fun” at her birthday — her or Brooks! Judging by pictures, it seems the joy was mutual!

My Queenie

Yearwood shyly revealed in an interview with Today that her hubby nicknames her “Queen.” Despite apparently pleading to call her just “Trisha,” we all know this affectionate man won’t be budging at any point in the near future.

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On his Instagram account, pictures he takes alongside Yearwood usually include a royal reference. He captioned a picture at the Country Music Awards in November 2016 with “Standing next to the QUEEN makes any day a great day, but especially today! love, g.”

Love Is In The Air

We are not sure just how much more sappy Brooks can get, but we think this may top it off. During a joint interview with Parade magazine, he revealed another quirky fact about their marriage.

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The “Ask Me How I Know” singer admitted he knew Yearwood was the one because when they started dating, he discovered she was everything he wanted her to be and more. He even declared that he loves “breathing the same air she’s breathing.” Cringeworthy or cute? You take your pick.

Generosity Goes A Long Way

Yearwood and Brooks are so content in their marriage that they want to spread the love. They even go out of their way to make sure other couples feel the same way they do.

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According to CBS News, the couple has helped settle the bill for a newlywed couple’s honeymoon and sent wedding gifts to another set of fans. But Brooks does not just do this for anyone, the generosity was triggered by an event that happened during one of his Oklahoma City concerts.

Pick Hawaii

One fan, Drew Bargsley, got down on one knee to propose to his girlfriend Chelsea Townsend during the song “Unanswered Prayers” and she said yes. Creating a commotion, the singer stopped his performance to see what was going on.

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“Chelsea, where do you want to go on your honeymoon?” Brooks asked. After revealing she did not know yet, Brooks said. “Tell you what, if you pick Hawaii, Miss Yearwood and I will pay for it.” Yearwood congratulated the couple too but hoped no one else would get engaged that night.

Wedding Gifts

The generosity didn’t stop there. At a show in Lafayette, Louisiana, Jude and Jamie Blanchard held up a sign reading: “Best Week Ever. Garth this Friday, our wedding next Friday.” Brooks spotted it and serenaded the couple with a song.

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He then asked them if they wanted him to purchase anything from their wedding registry. The couple (obviously) couldn’t refuse and passed forward a wedding invitation for the superstar. The newlyweds certainly got more than expected, they reportedly received “a pair of lounge chairs, a KitchenAid mixer, and other items” delivered to their doorstep.

The Scent Of A Woman

Just like a puppy dog, when Brooks is not breathing in the same air that his wife breathes, he is catching a whiff of her natural scent. Brooks told iHeart Radio on their 12-year anniversary that “It could be a hundred and twelve [years of marriage] and it would still feel the same.

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Every day is like the first day for me.” He added, “Everything from the way she smells to the way she talks. Just things that never get old.”

Personal Barista

Having a Starbucks within a mile is great, but Yearwood is lucky enough to get her coffee delivered every morning to her from her beloved husband. “He gets up every morning and makes my coffee,” she told People magazine.

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“And it’s the best. And if I have to get up early, like right now I’m filming my cooking show and I’m getting up at like 6 o’clock in the morning, and he doesn’t have to get up at 6 o’clock, he gets up and makes my coffee.” What’s more, Brooks doesn’t even drink it himself!

Cooking Keeps Them Together

The main cause for celebrity couple failure is limited quality time together. Even once Brooks had retired, Yearwood was still making tracks. In order to be closer, she cut her tour dates “way down” and eventually quit touring entirely.

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Instead, she created a series of cookbooks and started hosting her own Food Network cooking show, Trisha’s Southern Kitchen. This way they would never be apart. She said they’re together “99 percent of the time … We don’t spend very many nights apart.”

Emotional Rollercoaster

After thirteen years in retirement, Brooks came back on tour. From 2014, he and Yearwood spent three years on tour together, covering 383 shows. Brooks called the tour an “emotional rollercoaster”.

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He said, “It’s been three years of your life with your best buddies out there so you’re proud of your work but at the same time you hate to see it end because this is how you become accustomed to your days.” Demand was so high the pair performed multiple concerts with even two shows per night in some cases.

Touring as One

The couple has certainly proven that their relationship is a strong one. They’ve toured together, performed at the CMA Awards together, and released their first joint album: a collection of holiday songs called Christmas Together.

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They will celebrate their 13-year wedding anniversary on December 10th. When asked about touring with each other, Yearwood said, ” I can’t think of anything negative.” With Brooks agreeing, “I don’t have anything negative, either… I can’t think of a con, other than you can’t get away with stuff. But that keeps you honest.”

Helping Humanity

This summer, the country power couple headed out to Mishawaka, IN to work alongside hundreds of volunteers for Habitat for Humanity’s 35th Jimmy & Rosalynn Carter Work Project. The group constructed 22 new, affordable homes for low-income families.

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Brooks and Yearwood have volunteered with Habitat for Humanity for over a decade. They take away a lot from the experience, “You still learn new experiences every day. You learn that the system works,” Brooks says. “[The new homeowners] put in their sweat equity, and then they take out a mortgage, and here we go. They become part of the system.”

Where’s Your Wife?

Earlier this year, Brooks headlined a two-hour set in front of a crowd of 75,000 at Stagecoach Country Music Festival, which he described as “The coolest outdoor festival there is.”

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After playing there herself 10 years earlier, Yearwood knew how amazing the experience would be for her husband. But of course, a performance now would not be the same without his wife by his side. He admitted in an interview now it’s like “Hi Garth, where’s your wife? It’s never separated anymore.”

Plans Of Retirement

It does not seem like the country music king and queen will be hanging up their cowboy boots anytime soon as the pair are not ready to give up their day job. “I can sing, I’m not going to stop,” Yearwood said in an interview, “We hit the jackpot because we are with the love of our lives.

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We also get to do what we love for a living. So as long as we can do that, we’re going to do that.”

Grand Gestures

They say romance never dies, and in Brooks’ case, that is certainly true. After 13 years of marriage, the country singer will be romantically surprising his wife during his performance on the 52nd Annual CMA Awards with his new track.

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The song will be as new to her as it will be to everyone else attending the awards celebration. He revealed that although the song is not directly about Yearwood, the message about strong women is what reminds him of his wife.

Yearwood Secrets

Brooks revealed on his Facebook chat a sneak peek into what his wife is working on. Just recently, Yearwood posted seductive pictures to Instagram which created many questions among their fans. He shared, “[They] have been asking for something for years to come out, and this is cool.

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It’s neat to be in the house with her while this is going on.” Although there is no word as to when the secret song will be released, Brooks’ song will be available after the CMA Awards.

Together While Apart

Even though Brooks has plans for an upcoming three-year stadium tour, that does not mean the country couple will spend time apart. While he will be performing alone, Trisha will be joining with her own tailgate session.

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Fans can sample her recipes and cocktails, as well as check out furniture and accessories from her home collection. While she may appear as an occasional surprise guest during his stadium shows, Yearwood will also be in the studio this year making music of her own.

Inseperable

Since their marriage, Brooks and Yearwood have mostly worked and performed as a team. But soon the country stars are going to focus on their own individual projects. Yearwood has plans to record new music, while Brooks has announced an upcoming performance at Notre Dame Stadium.

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Despite the fact that they won’t be on stage together, Yearwood and Brooks say they’ll still be spending the same amount of time together off-stage. “We didn’t get married to be apart, so we’re gonna be together all the time,” Brooks has revealed. Now that is true love.